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Wednesday, June 23, 2010 || 3:51 PM 
50 things girls should know about guys!1. Guys hate  sluts.2. “Hey, are you busy?” or “Are you doing something?” - two  phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.3. Guys  may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always  think about the girl they truly care about.4. Before they call, guys  try to plan out a little about what they’re gonna say so there aren’t  awkward pauses, but once he’s on the phone he forgets it all and makes  it up as he goes.5. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.6. Guys  will do anything just to get you to notice him.7. Guys hate it when  you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they’re  going for the  let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are  method.8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.9.  Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.10.  Don’t talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.11. Guys get  jealous easily.12. Guys are more emotional than they’d like people  to think.13. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know  what?!..uh…nevermind..” would make him jump to a conclusion that is  far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong  and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.14. Guys are good  flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a  girl they really like.15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy  girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money  for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they  end up asking the parents for money anyway.16. Girls are guys’  weaknesses.17. Guys are very open about themselves.18. It’s good  to test a guy first before you trust him. But don’t let him wait too  long.19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about  his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.20.  If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen  to him. You don’t need to give advice.21. A usual act that proves  that the guy likes you is when he teases you.22. Guys love you more  than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.23.  Guys will brag about anything.24. Guys use words like hot or cute to  describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes  you.25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even  if she doesn’t notice it can make the guy think about it for hours,  trying to figure out what it meant.26. Guys seek for advice from  girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if 1 guy’s  confused, then we’re all confused.27. Any guy could write out a  rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book  about relationships.28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.29.  A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s  too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be  mature and grown up.30. If the guy does something stupid in front of  the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the  next time he spends time with the girl.31. No matter how much guys  talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.32. Guys learn from  experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their  basis of experience.33. Guys worry about the thin line between being  compassionate and being whipped.34. If a guy looks unusually calm  and laid back, he’s probably faking it and is spazzing inside.35.  When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys  rarely say that.36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s  just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me.”37. Guys don’t  really have final decisions.38. If a guy starts to talk seriously,  listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does,you  know something’s up.39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you  or is never around when you’re with your boyfriend, he’s probably  jealous and likes you.40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a  second, he’s definitely thinking something.41. Guys like femininity  not feebleness.42. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they  do.43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked  eyes.44. Don’t be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up  easily.45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume.  Just not too much.46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk  about guys.47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even  more.48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have  unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even  more to them.49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a  girl’s mind for a day.50. No guy can handle all his problems by his  own. He’s just too stubborn to admit it. 31 things guys should know about girls!
1. Whatever  you do, don’t just show up at their house…they run around in their  underwear just like we do.
2. Don’t cheat on them. It may seem  foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust  me, they WILL find out and you will be mud.
3. Beware of every single  male relatives and all guy friends. Any of them would kick your butt at  the drop of a hat, and a lot of them wouldn’t even wait for the damn  hat.
4. Never miss an opportunity to tell them they’re beautiful.
5.  Don’t refuse to kiss in front of your friends. If they laugh at you,  it’s because they’re jealous.
6. If they slap you hard, you deserved  it.
7. Don’t be afraid to touch them if you want to. If they’re going  out with you in the first place, it’s because they like being in your  arms.
8. If you don’t sleep with them, do not tell your friends that  you did.
—8.5. If you DO sleep with them, don’t tell your friends  that you did.
9. You can be dirty minded in private, really…most of  them are not offended by it…
10. Not all of them eat like birds, a  lot of them can eat like whales.
11. Most of them don’t mind paying  half of everything, but they do discuss these things with their friends.  Realize that if you make your girlfriend pay half all the time,  everyone will know about it and your friends will know you’re a *****.
—11.5.  Do you honestly need all your money that much? Be a man, pay all the  time!
12. Every girl should eventually get three things from her  boyfriend- a stuffed animal, one of his sweatshirts, and a really pretty  ring. Even if it’s not a serious relationship.
13. Make sure she  gets home safely as often as you can. If you’re dropping her off, walk  her to the door. If you aren’t dropping her off, call to be sure she’s  home safely.
14. If a guy is bothering her, it is your right to kick  the crap out of him.
15. If you’re talking to a female friend of  yours, pull your girlfriend closer.
16. Never, ever slap her, even if  it’s just in a joking way. Even if she swats you first, and says, “Oh,  you’re so dumb” or something, never make any gestures back.
17. Go to  a chick flick once in a while. She doesn’t care whether you enjoy it or  not, it just matters that you went.
18. You’re dead meat if you  can’t get along with their pets, parents and best friends. Be prince  charming to their friends, Mr. Polite to their parents, and make sure to  be nice to their animals.
19. Don’t flirt with their moms or  friends…that’s just freaky.
20. Don’t be freaked out by PMS. It’s not  gross, and it really does make them feel like crap, so be  understanding.
21. If you don’t like the way they drive, you do it.
22.  If you’re officially dating, and you’re introducing her to your  friends, you’d better damn well introduce her as your girlfriend.
23.  Don’t stress where you go for every date. They really only want to be  with you.
24. If they complain that something hurts, rub it for them  without being asked.
25. Girls are fragile. Even if you’re play  fighting/wrestling, be very gentle.
26. Memorize their birthdays. You  forget her birthday and you’re basically screwed for life.
27. Don’t  marinade the cologne.
28. Don’t give her something stupid for her  birthday or Christmas or Valentine’s day. It doesn’t have to be  expensive, but it has to be meaningful. Jewelry is always nice.
29.  If you think the relationship isn’t going to last, don’t wait to find  out. It will only hurt you more if you draw it out.
30. After you’ve  been dating for a while, realize that they really have started to trust  you. When you have a girlfriend who truly trusts you, you have a lot  more responsibility, privilege and control than you would think. Be  careful with it, most guys would kill for that kind of power, and it can  be lost in a nanosecond.
31. Don’t ever do anything wrong (well not  anything). girls remember things for life and anything you did wrong  will be used against you in the future.